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LexusVirgo | Can you tell when you and another person has unspoken attraction? Is it fun? |
Randall | The eyes tell all. Not just the longer-than-usual gazing into them, but when the pupils dilate. |
LexusVirgo | True and the way they look shiney.. |
Randall | Ah, yes... |
aquaguy91 | No, I have aspergers. I only know when someone tells me. |
Newrise | quote: Originally posted by aquaguy91: No, I have aspergers. I only know when someone tells me.
Haha, I think I might have that too. How do you know? |
aquaguy91 | quote: Originally posted by Newrise: Haha, I think I might have that too. How do you know?
Look up signs of aspergers syndrome and see if it fits you and then go to a psychiatrist or psychologist to get evaluated. |
LexusVirgo | I'm really sorry aqua guy .. |
ash20 | Sometimes I can tell and then sometimes I'm reading too much into it. I only believe a guy likes me when they verbally say so nowadays. |
aquaguy91 | quote: Originally posted by LexusVirgo: I'm really sorry aqua guy ..
Don't be sorry. It's my cross to bear. But I'm not going to lie, it does suck. |
Aubyanne | quote: Originally posted by LexusVirgo: I'm really sorry aqua guy ..
Hey, don't be. Aspies are awesome. They're Uranians in an Earth-oriented star system. Right, Aquaguy? It's not all minuses. There are pluses, too. |
aquaguy91 | quote: Originally posted by Aubyanne: Hey, don't be. Aspies are awesome. They're Uranians in an Earth-oriented star system. Right, Aquaguy? It's not all minuses. There are pluses, too.
Honestly? It's mostly minuses. Although it could be a positive if society had different values. As it is..... Today's society is all about having people skills. As the popular saying goes "its not about what you know its all about who you know". What does that mean? It means being popular is more important than having knowledge or skills. It's no secret that many people on the spectrum are brilliant but struggle to get good jobs because they lack social skills. So it goes without saying that aspies also struggle to make friends or get into romantic relationships.
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Aubyanne | quote: Originally posted by aquaguy91: [QUOTE]Originally posted by Aubyanne: [b] Hey, don't be. Aspies are awesome. They're Uranians in an Earth-oriented star system. Right, Aquaguy? It's not all minuses. There are pluses, too.
Honestly? It's mostly minuses. Although it could be a positive if society had different values. As it is..... Today's society is all about having people skills. As the popular saying goes "its not about what you know its all about who you know". What does that mean? It means being popular is more important than having knowledge or skills. It's no secret that many people on the spectrum are brilliant but struggle to get good jobs because they lack social skills. So it goes without saying that aspies also struggle to make friends or get into romantic relationships. [/B][/QUOTE]I'm probably just viewing it too much as a schizoid. Sorry about that. |
aquaguy91 | quote: Originally posted by Aubyanne: I'm probably just viewing it too much as a schizoid. Sorry about that.
What do you mean? |
Randall | |
Randall | quote: Originally posted by aquaguy91: [QUOTE]Originally posted by Aubyanne: [b] Hey, don't be. Aspies are awesome. They're Uranians in an Earth-oriented star system. Right, Aquaguy? It's not all minuses. There are pluses, too.
Honestly? It's mostly minuses. Although it could be a positive if society had different values. As it is..... Today's society is all about having people skills. As the popular saying goes "its not about what you know its all about who you know". What does that mean? It means being popular is more important than having knowledge or skills. It's no secret that many people on the spectrum are brilliant but struggle to get good jobs because they lack social skills. So it goes without saying that aspies also struggle to make friends or get into romantic relationships. [/B][/QUOTE] |
SDragon | As an empath I can only tell when I get nervous around them and then I'm like, wth, why am I nervous, but I'm feeling their nervousness towards me... Ya, we're all twisted... ;/ |
Randall | |
Randall | Ugh. The Quote function malfunctions sometimes. |
Soltze | quote: Originally posted by SDragon: As an empath I can only tell when I get nervous around them and then I'm like, wth, why am I nervous, but I'm feeling their nervousness towards me...Ya, we're all twisted... ;/
OMG - Totally this. But I will only get nervous if I feel a mutual thing going on. If not, I can see the guy is attracted but I try to politely ignore it
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Randall | It must be tough being an empath. |
LexusVirgo | Yep. |
Randall | |
Randall | Reminds me of the empath, Deanna Troy, on Star Trek TNG. |
LexusVirgo | quote: Originally posted by Randall: Reminds me of the empath, Deanna Troy, on Star Trek TNG.
I loved her in that show |